The ArcherDec 29, 20214 minThe Face of the EarthEvery so often I date a Harry Houdini-a boy who sort of disappears during or after our relationship. Sometimes the signs are obvious....
The ArcherDec 10, 20215 minBoringI've gotten to a point in the retelling of my dating history where everything was working in my life except the dates themselves. I was...
The ArcherNov 24, 20213 minHe's Just Not That Into YouThere have been 3 times, according to my extensive dating document entitled "To All The Boys I've Loved Before" where I have suspected...
The ArcherNov 22, 20215 minHarvard*Pop culture reference* *Pop culture reference* *Pop culture reference* If you have ever spoken to me or read my writing you might have...
The ArcherOct 27, 20218 minCut It ShortWhen I used to teach shabbos groups at my shul, we were given some advice I'll never forget: cut it short. If you've planned an activity...
The ArcherJul 1, 20216 minCrazy Is As Crazy DoesHave you ever been scared of something not quite rational? Everyone understands the fears of snakes and spiders and murder republican...
The ArcherJun 16, 20215 minThe Drought and the TrickAccording to my carefully maintained spreadsheet, the longest "dating drought" I ever had was for 6 months in 2016. There was a very...
The ArcherJun 1, 20217 minThe Very Worst?I get the same question all the time: What was your worst date ever? It's a hard question for me to answer because there are combinations...
The ArcherMay 26, 20218 minDouble DippingI am back with a dating story from my large catalogue of experiences. LET'S GET TO IT. There are two very interesting things about boy #7...
The ArcherFeb 4, 20219 minDoing My TaxesAs the old saying goes, there are two things you cannot avoid in life: death and taxes. Luckily at my most recent speed dating experience...
The ArcherDec 28, 20208 minI Don't Cook, I Don't CleanI may be naive, but from what I have experienced I don't think there is a large camp of people out there who would argue that there is a...
The ArcherDec 24, 20204 minThe Tell Tale RealizationToo soon into my dating life I realized that not only Timing Isn't Everything , but there would be larger "coincidences" that wouldn't...
The ArcherDec 17, 202010 minLocation, Location, LocationI'm the kind of serial dater that's done it all. I've been forcibly kidnapped and transported to an undisclosed location, I mean, picked...
The ArcherDec 15, 20204 minHarry Potter and the First DateBack when I was a young woman, as opposed to now when my knees hurt constantly, I figured I would marry one of the first guys I ever...
The ArcherDec 14, 20209 minEssentially, The Essentials Are EssentialBefore I begin this post begins I want to point out-again-that everything I am writing is 100% true. Some of this will sound...
The ArcherDec 3, 20205 minStranger DangerMy mother taught me from a young age that if any adult I didn't know ever spoke to me it was inevitable that I would be murdered shortly....
The ArcherDec 1, 20205 minTips for Dating on SpeedThis past Sunday, I went to a speed dating event in a largely populated Jewish area that was attended by singles from throughout the...
The ArcherNov 25, 20205 minThe Fallacy of Flirting Through PoetryA few bright people came up with an idea after COVID-19 came in and ruined all of our lives (or at least the 2020 baseball season.) They...
The ArcherNov 24, 202010 minShabbaton 2: Lost in New YorkOne of the more difficult things I've done in my dating life is attending singles' shabbatons. These are weekend trips where a number of...
The ArcherNov 23, 20205 minBurning Out Burning Out For You BabyIt is a truth universally acknowledged, that a girl between the ages of 6-19 in the year 2008 in possession of a regular hormone cycle,...