The Last Strike On The Last Out
I had such a good Yamim Noraim last year. I decided to try something new and daven at a Vazikin (buttcrack of dawn) minyan in a different...
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The Archer
- 7 days ago
- 4 min
Pick Up!
I was swiping through guys on an app (did you know every swipe decreases your self esteem by 20 points? Did you know self esteem is...
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The Archer
- Sep 14
- 4 min
I Do This For You
I went on a little Zoom Zoom date recently. I knew from the second we spoke on the phone that this guy thought he created the world AND I...
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The Archer
- Sep 13
- 3 min
G-D Save Our Gracious Queen
Her Majesty the Queen passed from this earth last week at the age of 96. She leaves behind four children, 8 grandchildren, and 12 great...
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The Archer
- Sep 12
- 5 min
The Long Nights
The only thing worse than being all alone all day is being alone all night. Not that part. The part where you finish work and make a sad...
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The Archer
- Sep 9
- 10 min
Too Many Boxes
Many guys will tell me they hate labels. Great! I also, theoretically, hate labels. Hashkafic, political, pop culturally, emotionally...
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The Archer
- Sep 9
- 6 min
Don't Worry Bubbaleh
I have written an allegory that turns one of the biggest pop culture moments of our time into a relatable story about Shidduchim. If you...
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The Archer
- Aug 23
- 4 min
It Gets Better (Not Life. The Irony.)
In my last post I discussed how now that women don't really need men for external things anymore, many men are finding themselves...
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The Archer
- Aug 12
- 7 min
Rise! Rise! Riiiiiiiiiiise!
While I have been taking a bit of a break from dissecting my dating life in order to work on a few other projects, an article came across...
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The Archer
- Jul 18
- 4 min
Getting Smarter
Back in the olden days when I first started dating, I could tell that every guy I went out with really liked me with a few notable...
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The Archer
- Jul 8
- 4 min
A Virgin Barbecue
The other day I went to a barbecue my friend told me about. It was for singles and was in New Jersey so naturally I assumed that by the...
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The Archer
- Jul 5
- 4 min
I've Got A Candy Crush On You
With tremendous gratitude to the Ribono Shel Olam for bringing me to this day, I would like to announce a long awaited simcha here at The...
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The Archer
- Jun 28
- 2 min
What Else Could Be Wrong?
Looking at the last 10 or so guys I have yet to write about I can sum most of them up in quick little bursts that have already been...
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The Archer
- Jun 23
- 3 min
Check Me Against Your List and See Consistency
Originally when I began blogging my dating stories, I figured I would be consistent. Consistency is something I am naturally good at:...
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The Archer
- Jun 14
- 3 min
Brain Surgery
Easy dating is easy, or so I've heard. You meet someone, it clicks, you reveal yourself to them, they reveal back, you build together....
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The Archer
- Jun 7
- 4 min
Up The Down, Down The Up
Boy #38 or Escalator showed up on a dating site in August of COVID. I had heard his name a few times before and the timing was never...
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The Archer
- May 24
- 6 min
Good, But Also Terrible
In a recent post I discussed feeling validated when I read a nonfiction book where a woman described her difficulty with guys who don't...
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The Archer
- May 20
- 3 min
The Forgotten Mitzvah
Buckle your seat belts because a new Jewish dating site crossed my Instagram feed yesterday and I'm going to take all of you through...
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The Archer
- May 19
- 6 min
Validation
I have this thing that I like in my relationships. It's pretty kinky and weird but try to understand where I am coming from: I like the...
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The Archer
- May 18
- 5 min
Summer In The City
I've told nearly all of this story in bits and pieces throughout this blog. In fact, this story was the one that convinced me I needed to...
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