The Archer3 days ago6 minGood, But Also TerribleIn a recent post I discussed feeling validated when I read a nonfiction book where a woman described her difficulty with guys who don't...
The Archer7 days ago3 minThe Forgotten MitzvahBuckle your seat belts because a new Jewish dating site crossed my Instagram feed yesterday and I'm going to take all of you through...
The ArcherMay 197 minValidationI have this thing that I like in my relationships. It's pretty kinky and weird but try to understand where I am coming from: I like the...
The ArcherMay 185 minSummer In The CityI've told nearly all of this story in bits and pieces throughout this blog. In fact, this story was the one that convinced me I needed to...
The ArcherMay 123 minJail WifeI wake up early, though it is Sunday. I brush my teeth and comb my hair and put on light makeup. I get into the car and begin to drive....
The ArcherMay 104 minAnother Day, Another ResumeI've joined random Shidduch sites on the internet, mainly because a Shadchan told me they "only work through there" or a friend or family...
The ArcherMay 63 minMontage EntrapmentYou don't really know what you are living through until you go back and look at it from a wider lens. Part of what this blog is doing for...
The ArcherMay 34 min36 Questions To Fall In LoveThe New York Times published a list of 36 questions that will lead to love. The formula for this is asking the questions in groups of 9...
The ArcherApr 284 minBirds and StonesAren't birds annoying? They do ridiculous things like wake up with the sun and then immediately talk about it in their loudest voices....
The ArcherApr 273 minDating A CelebrityFor several years in middle/high school I was dating renowned actor and jawline owner Robert Pattinson. He was unaware of our...
The ArcherApr 194 minHigh Maintenance DreamsAs a high maintenance person, there are lots of things that I want. I want the room around me to be clean always. I need the temperature...
The ArcherApr 145 minEnd Of An EraThe next serious relationship I had was mostly characterized by what came right afterwards. Insomniac, called that because one memorable...
The ArcherApr 72 minI Think I've Seen This Film BeforeLooking through my list I realize I have a problem: I've already covered most of my next few boys in some way or another. #26, #28 and...
The ArcherApr 63 minHow To Definitively Know Your HashkafaHashkafa, loosely defined as the way other people can judge how jewish you are at given moment, can be very hard to define. What some...
The ArcherApr 54 minWhat If This Is What I Was Avoiding?I took a long break from this blog. Then, I came back. I opened up my spreadsheet of boys to see where I was up to, and looked through my...
The ArcherApr 44 minHuff and Puff and Blow Your House DownWe have a new crisis. I know. That means the Jewish community is now back to 0 days without a crisis. This new crisis is The Solution to...
The ArcherApr 42 minWhat Did I Miss?The last time I wrote on here was February 4th, two entire months ago. Since then a lot has happened. I've spent extended amounts of time...
The ArcherFeb 41 minTa Ta For NowHi friends, I started this blog to help me work through some of my frustrations around dating. It has really blossomed into something...
The ArcherJan 204 minRound and Round in CirclesJanuary blew in with gusts of 20 degree days and dimmed sunlight and a lingering cough that probably isn't COVID but you never know....
The ArcherJan 114 minUse Your ImaginationImagination was a trait extolled on many of the TV shows I watched as a toddler and young child. Using one's imagination could allow one...