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    Good, But Also Terrible
    The Archer
    • 3 days ago
    • 6 min

    Good, But Also Terrible

    In a recent post I discussed feeling validated when I read a nonfiction book where a woman described her difficulty with guys who don't...
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    The Forgotten Mitzvah
    The Archer
    • 7 days ago
    • 3 min

    The Forgotten Mitzvah

    Buckle your seat belts because a new Jewish dating site crossed my Instagram feed yesterday and I'm going to take all of you through...
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    Validation
    The Archer
    • May 19
    • 7 min

    Validation

    I have this thing that I like in my relationships. It's pretty kinky and weird but try to understand where I am coming from: I like the...
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    Summer In The City
    The Archer
    • May 18
    • 5 min

    Summer In The City

    I've told nearly all of this story in bits and pieces throughout this blog. In fact, this story was the one that convinced me I needed to...
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    Jail Wife
    The Archer
    • May 12
    • 3 min

    Jail Wife

    I wake up early, though it is Sunday. I brush my teeth and comb my hair and put on light makeup. I get into the car and begin to drive....
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    Another Day, Another Resume
    The Archer
    • May 10
    • 4 min

    Another Day, Another Resume

    I've joined random Shidduch sites on the internet, mainly because a Shadchan told me they "only work through there" or a friend or family...
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    Montage Entrapment
    The Archer
    • May 6
    • 3 min

    Montage Entrapment

    You don't really know what you are living through until you go back and look at it from a wider lens. Part of what this blog is doing for...
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    36 Questions To Fall In Love
    The Archer
    • May 3
    • 4 min

    36 Questions To Fall In Love

    The New York Times published a list of 36 questions that will lead to love. The formula for this is asking the questions in groups of 9...
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    Birds and Stones
    The Archer
    • Apr 28
    • 4 min

    Birds and Stones

    Aren't birds annoying? They do ridiculous things like wake up with the sun and then immediately talk about it in their loudest voices....
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    Dating A Celebrity
    The Archer
    • Apr 27
    • 3 min

    Dating A Celebrity

    For several years in middle/high school I was dating renowned actor and jawline owner Robert Pattinson. He was unaware of our...
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    High Maintenance Dreams
    The Archer
    • Apr 19
    • 4 min

    High Maintenance Dreams

    As a high maintenance person, there are lots of things that I want. I want the room around me to be clean always. I need the temperature...
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    End Of An Era
    The Archer
    • Apr 14
    • 5 min

    End Of An Era

    The next serious relationship I had was mostly characterized by what came right afterwards. Insomniac, called that because one memorable...
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    I Think I've Seen This Film Before
    The Archer
    • Apr 7
    • 2 min

    I Think I've Seen This Film Before

    Looking through my list I realize I have a problem: I've already covered most of my next few boys in some way or another. #26, #28 and...
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    How To Definitively Know Your Hashkafa
    The Archer
    • Apr 6
    • 3 min

    How To Definitively Know Your Hashkafa

    Hashkafa, loosely defined as the way other people can judge how jewish you are at given moment, can be very hard to define. What some...
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    What If This Is What I Was Avoiding?
    The Archer
    • Apr 5
    • 4 min

    What If This Is What I Was Avoiding?

    I took a long break from this blog. Then, I came back. I opened up my spreadsheet of boys to see where I was up to, and looked through my...
    126 views0 comments
    Huff and Puff and Blow Your House Down
    The Archer
    • Apr 4
    • 4 min

    Huff and Puff and Blow Your House Down

    We have a new crisis. I know. That means the Jewish community is now back to 0 days without a crisis. This new crisis is The Solution to...
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    What Did I Miss?
    The Archer
    • Apr 4
    • 2 min

    What Did I Miss?

    The last time I wrote on here was February 4th, two entire months ago. Since then a lot has happened. I've spent extended amounts of time...
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    Ta Ta For Now
    The Archer
    • Feb 4
    • 1 min

    Ta Ta For Now

    Hi friends, I started this blog to help me work through some of my frustrations around dating. It has really blossomed into something...
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    Round and Round in Circles
    The Archer
    • Jan 20
    • 4 min

    Round and Round in Circles

    January blew in with gusts of 20 degree days and dimmed sunlight and a lingering cough that probably isn't COVID but you never know....
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    Use Your Imagination
    The Archer
    • Jan 11
    • 4 min

    Use Your Imagination

    Imagination was a trait extolled on many of the TV shows I watched as a toddler and young child. Using one's imagination could allow one...
    109 views0 comments
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